en route; this is ridiculous.
this is NOT what you do to people &their families on Christmas Eve.
stop emotionally blackmailing her by calling her &crying to her &all those nonsensical crap. you of all people should know who was the one who initiated everything, so you jolly well go talk to the source instead of crying &asking her to work hard and fight for things. go talk to the one who started everything.
and when you finally find out the REAL reason why everything is happening,
LEAVE. HER. ALONE.
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merry christmas everyone!
i hope so far your christmas eve is going far better than mine.